Ten Steps To Positive Body Image
Compiled by Margo Maine, Ph. D.
One list
can not automatically tell you how to turn negative body thoughts into
positive body image, but it can help you think about new ways of looking more
healthfully and happily at yourself and your body. The more you do that, the
more likely you are to feel good about who you are and the body you naturally
have.
- Appreciate all that your
body can do. Every day your body carries you closer to your dreams.
Celebrate all of the amazing things your body does for you --running,
dancing, breathing, laughing, dreaming, etc.
- Keep a top-10 list of
things you like about yourself -- things that aren't related to how much
you weigh or what you look like. Read your list often. Add to it as you
become aware of more things to like about you.
- Remind yourself that
"true beauty" is not simply skin-deep. When you feel good
about yourself and who you are, you carry yourself with a sense of
confidence, self-acceptance, and openness that makes you beautiful
regardless of whether you physically look like a supermodel. Beauty is a
state of mind, not a state of your body.
- Look at yourself as a
whole person. When you see yourself in a mirror or in your mind, choose
not to focus on specific body parts. See yourself as you want others to
see you -- as a whole person.
- Surround yourself with
positive people. It is easier to feel good about yourself and your body
when you are around others who are supportive and who recognize the
importance of liking yourself just as you naturally are.
- Shut down those voices in
your head that tell you your body is not "right" or that you
are a "bad" person. You can overpower those negative thoughts
with positive ones. The next time you start to tear yourself down, build
yourself back up with a few quick affirmations that work for you.
- Wear clothes that are
comfortable and that make you feel good about your body. Work with your
body, not against it.
- Become a critical viewer
of social and media messages. Pay attention to images, slogans, or
attitudes that make you feel bad about yourself or your body. Protest
these messages: write a letter to the advertiser or talk back to the
image or message.
- Do something nice for
yourself -- something that lets your body know you appreciate it. Take a
bubble bath, make time for a nap, find a peaceful place outside to
relax.
- Use the time and energy
that you might have spent worrying about food, calories, and your weight
to do something to help others. Sometimes reaching out to other people
can help you feel better about yourself and can make a positive change
in our world.
For more information, contact Eating Disorders Awareness
and Prevention, Inc. at 603 Stewart St., Suite 803,
Seattle
,
WA
98101
, 1-800-931-2237. www.edap.org © 2000 EDAP. This
handout may be reproduced for educational purposes only.
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